This is the advice from one who loves you; welcome it and faithfully put it into practice. ~Rule of Benedict, Prologue

At our diocesan camp, we have many practices but only one rule. This is our Rule of Life, which articulates how we intentionally seek to connect with God, others, ourselves and creation through words, actions and attitudes. On the first night of each summer camp session, before we review each section, we take the time to explain the idea of a Rule of Life, particularly as it applies to our common life at camp. We begin by explaining that we use the word rule to mean something like to regulate or to have regular habits. Next, we often share this example: “Our rule of life is like a set of bumpers on a bowling alley but for our community. They are simply a set of practices to help us all stay on the path of Jesus, caring for one another, ourselves and our place with generous helpings of mercy and grace, no matter how exhausted or frustrated we get with each other.”

The truth is that everyone at camp—from campers and guests to leaders and volunteers—struggles to stay on the path of love when living, working and resting in such close quarters. This is why we need to regularly practice the guides of the Rule, individually and together, to build up our spiritual and relational muscles. Like a musician practicing scales again and again, we must practice preferring one another, choosing one another, forgiving one another and blessing one another, not just once, but daily, moment by moment.

For Reflection

Do you have a Rule of Life? Does your family or church? How could having a Rule change the common life of one of your communities?

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